{"id":3486,"date":"2014-12-03T00:10:39","date_gmt":"2014-12-03T05:10:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/?p=3486"},"modified":"2014-12-03T00:10:39","modified_gmt":"2014-12-03T05:10:39","slug":"its-been-a-while","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/?p=3486","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s Been A While&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi my lovely bloggy readers,<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s been really quiet around here for the last <del>6 weeks<\/del> 3 months. Yes, I started an update post 6 weeks ago and never finished it.<\/p>\n<p>My life in a nutshell these days&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Celebrated my 38th birthday!<\/li>\n<li>Our 4th wedding anniversary!<\/li>\n<li>Paid off 3 credit cards<\/li>\n<li>Started a Fiber and Fandoms podcast with my friend Kate &#8211; <a title=\"Muggle Yarns\" href=\"http:\/\/muggleyarns.com\" target=\"_blank\">Muggle Yarns<\/a>!<\/li>\n<li>Successfully completed my <a title=\"Sheep2Skein\" href=\"http:\/\/sheep2skein.com\" target=\"_blank\">Kickstarter campaign<\/a> thanks to my 19 truly <a title=\"Kickstarter Ending and Projects Update\" href=\"http:\/\/sheep2skein.com\/?p=179\" target=\"_blank\">amazing backers<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Dropped to half time \u2013 20 hours &#8211; at my full time job<\/li>\n<li>Took on 2nd part time job \u2013 25+ hours \u2013 back in the development\/ fundraising and event planning world at a non-profit<\/li>\n<li>Half-heartedly searching for children on several nationwide sites &#8211; <a title=\"family-match.org\" href=\"http:\/\/family-match.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">family-match.org<\/a> &#8211; <a title=\"adoptuskids.org\" href=\"http:\/\/www.adoptuskids.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">adoptuskids.org<\/a><\/li>\n<li>House hunting like crazy &#8211; we lost the cutest little house in North Miami Beach bc we took too long deciding<\/li>\n<li>Getting over laryngitis that I&#8217;ve had for 10 days<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Coming up&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Getting my knitting out \u2013 2 more projects to try to finish this week<\/li>\n<li>Shipping all my Kickstarter projects out<\/li>\n<li>Going back to the customers that wanted commissions once this knitting was finished<\/li>\n<li>House hunting and hopefully moving north and much closer to my jobs. My current commute time is 1.5-2 hours<\/li>\n<li>Paying down and off all my other debts &#8211; goal for total payoff is 3 years<\/li>\n<li>Still trying to get over and past our <a title=\"Matchmaking and Adoption\" href=\"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/?p=3393\">failed placement<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Parenting?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-3502 alignleft\" alt=\"heart bandaid\" src=\"http:\/\/fletcherfam.com\/bb\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/heartbandaid-150x150.png\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/heartbandaid-150x150.png 150w, http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/heartbandaid.png 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>But what about parenting? Yeah&#8230; no idea.<\/p>\n<p>I still attend the meetings and events, but my whole heart isn\u2019t in it anymore. It&#8217;s more about hanging out with my friends than hoping there will be a foster parent there to talk to if her foster kids get TPRd. Husband even commented recently about my no longer showing him kid profiles or telling him about more kids. I&#8217;m a little down on the whole subject even though I know I could never be truly happy without being a mother. We have recently spent more time looking for houses than at children.<\/p>\n<p>So, yeah, I&#8217;m sorta back, just down. Trying to get my life on track and get back in the mindset of focusing on long term goals.<\/p>\n<p>Sooo&#8230;. how are you? What&#8217;s been happening in your lives in the last 3 months?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi my lovely bloggy readers, I know it\u2019s been really quiet around here for the last 6 weeks 3 months. Yes, I started an update post 6 weeks ago and never finished it. My life in a nutshell these days&#8230; Celebrated my 38th birthday! Our 4th wedding anniversary! Paid off 3 credit cards Started a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,9,100,29,30,32,54,56,58,79,89],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3486","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adoption","category-anniversary","category-ballerina","category-foster-adoption","category-foster-license","category-geek","category-mbjcc","category-miami","category-moving","category-sheep2skein","category-timeline"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3486","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3486"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3486\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3486"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3486"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3486"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}