{"id":376,"date":"2010-08-30T00:13:57","date_gmt":"2010-08-30T04:13:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.benaimfletcher.com\/?p=376"},"modified":"2010-08-30T00:13:57","modified_gmt":"2010-08-30T04:13:57","slug":"30-days-day-05-your-definition-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/?p=376","title":{"rendered":"30 Days: Day 05 Your definition of love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/?p=344\" target=\"_blank\"><em>&#8230;See the whole list here&#8230;<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<em>Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves.<\/em>&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8212; 1 Corinthians 13:4-7<\/p>\n<p>I never in my life thought I&#8217;d be quoting from the bible, but hey, if it applies, it applies. Even if it is appropriate in this case. I love this quote. <em>Love it!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is actually a difficult question. I was a late bloomer, but certainly had my fair share of ridiculous crushes that I thought were true love. My most notable silly crush was <strong><a href=\"beccablogs.com\/?p=357\" target=\"blank\">my first love<\/a><\/strong>. Silly me, right? It&#8217;s much like the overwhelming love teenagers swear they have when they want to get married in or straight out of high school.<\/p>\n<p>These days, having finally found the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, I define it differently. It is passionate, comfortable, emotional, content, and compassion. I have many other words to describe it, but they are simply words. I know in my very core that I found my match. That he is everything I have been looking for.<\/p>\n<p>The saying &#8220;I&#8217;ve kissed a lot of frogs&#8221; holds very true in my love life. Like I said, I was a late bloomer. I didn&#8217;t start really dating until I was 18ish. I honestly think more people should wait until later in life. Steve was also a late bloomer and we fully plan on teaching our children to do the same.<\/p>\n<p>How do you define love? Has it changed over the years?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;See the whole list here&#8230; &#8220;Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-376","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-30-days"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/376","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=376"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/376\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=376"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=376"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/beccablogs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=376"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}